Survey Reveals Institutional Gaps and Role-Model Shifts Behind Young Men’s Struggles

The Institute of Family Studies surveyed 2,000 U.S. men, revealing that the erosion of traditional institutions is the chief explanation for their distress. Men who followed formal education routes—college, trade school or apprenticeships—showed the most stable employment, relationships and community ties, yet such paths remain inaccessible for many due to cost or family duties. A striking 43% described themselves as failures, and 12% reported having been incarcerated, while only about 60% said a father was consistently present.

Economic stagnation leaves over 60% feeling they lack control over their lives, prompting daily gambling (23%) and pornography (27%) as coping mechanisms. When asked about role models, 54% each cited Barack Obama and LeBron James, surpassing religious figures at 46%, and 31% mentioned Andrew Tate. Most respondents (73%) believe defining masculinity has become harder in recent decades, reflecting the complex mix of traits now expected of men.